Chapter 8 ~ The Most Important Lesson

It takes me 7 years to understand the lesson from what happened to my family. Today, I am 21 years old, and half of the prediction that I made, happened. Both of my sisters got married, mom and dad have their own way of living, and my little sister further study. I look at them and remember all things that had happen, sweet memories that we have gone through, sad memories, and everything that had happen give me a lot of lesson. I look at them today, all of them have become stronger. Mom for example, she live alone at the moment, but that makes her strong. She no longer cried easily. While dad for instance, he knows what family is now and the first people that would help us in any situation is our family. And my sisters, they seems to be happier with their own family. And my little sister, well, I thought she would be lonely, but I guess I am wrong. She have her boyfriend to be with. Yes, I admit, it is bad to split away and everyone is going their own way. But think about it, if it did not happen this way, would my family and me be happier? Could we even be strong as we are now? I take it as something bad, yes. But, I also take this experience to be one of the lesson that God wanted to give me.

And the most important part is that, no matter how bad they are, mom, dad or sisters, they are my family who helped me a lot. And no one, not even me have the right to say that they are bad. It is the lesson that I think everyone should learn, and I have learn it the hard way. Everyone make mistakes. But we have no right to say it is bad because I am pretty sure, no one want bad things to happen especially in life. And when something that we did turns out to be bad, it is the lesson that we get, and that is the beauty in something bad. So, I have made up my mind, this thing is going to stop here. And I have learn so much from this and I am going to move my life forward and leave this thing behind. And to readers, you should too. After you got your lesson, leave bad memories behind but take along the lesson with you. Farewell....